Ask E. Jean - Tormented? Driven Witless? Whipsawed by confusion?

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Vixens, what is the best way to get someone out of your head?

I had to ask a friend to stop talking to me MONTHS ago, because he was in love with me and admitted that he would try to steal me from my current relationship. I admittedly had feelings for him as well, but chose my relationship.

Still, thoughts of him haunt me almost every day. I don't like how our friendship dissolved and I miss him constantly.

How do I just forget about him? What am I supposed to do with these feelings?

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    I really think you need to ask yourself why, when you're in a relationship, you're consumed with thoughts of someone else. Is it that it's someone else, or HIM?

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    If this is the same girl from the other question whose bf is kind of a controlling jerk you don't like, then please, make yourself happy and go be with this guy that you can't stop thinking about.

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    Haha, I wondered if it would be that obvious that it was the same poster.

    He and I had a talk, and it was agreed that I should have more freedoms and should be treated like an adult in the relationship. It was a good talk.

    I think, when looking at it realistically, I've made the right decision by staying with him. I just don't want to have thoughts of this other person any more. It would make the whole thing a lot easier.

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